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Sunday, May 22, 2011

Like a child.......


imagine a life where you can't make your own decision......
everything you do, have to be under your parents guide.......
I'm not saying parental guidance is wrong but what I do wanna say here is that over-parenting can be one's worst nightmare too....

over-parenting or in other words "too protective" can be the major factor where a child could not make his or her decision by themselves..... 
it can b say that these "over-parenting" children will someday end up to be what we call "mama boy" or too pampered.... 

some parents might think it is best to acknowledge their children's whereabouts and have the detail on who they go out with but what they do not see is that these children might end up to be bored and sometimes stress with their parents behaviour....
this likely happen when their children turn to their teen years.....

like other teenagers or young adults, they love freedom n try to b independent in much sense but having parents who are too concern about their children will only lead to many negative side effect.....
a very simple example is running away from home n worst, they might hate their parents for doing so.... 
what do adults think sometimes is not up to a teenagers expectation and vice versa but what we do know is that these two generation can have a talk and compromise each other.....
the best way is that both should try to understand each others life and have a life as friend for a start....

sometimes it is best to have your parents as your BFF but how many parents in this world will be that cool parents that teenagers always dream off? 
living in a world where you are treated like a child, is not in anyone's imagination but one's can't do anything if the parents themselves does not try to understand their own children......
every single decision will be made by them and all you have to do is to be a good son or daughter to them.....
that's what we called the power of filial piety.......

so parents out there, try to understand your teenage child because it is still not too late to have a better relationship with them.......
stop being "too protective" and try to be their friends.....
it helps a lot in many cases......












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