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Wednesday, October 26, 2011

My craziness and my love.....

Hey, let me ask you something...what is your craziness from young till now that you can't let it go? junk food, clothes, shoes? anything? well, for me i'm crazy over DVDs and comics.....you guys probably ask, "what the hell is she talking about", right? hahaha....i know this sounds crazy but yeah this is what i have been collected for the rest of my childhood and my teen years and most probably my whole life....


Ever heard about Kpop or Hallyu sensation? i bet everyone of you did....nowadays whenever you go, wherever you go, you will find Kpop or this Hallyu sensation everywhere....oh please...stop deny those thing for God sake....it's everywhere....in fashion, music, food, everyday conversation, TVs, radio and etc, you'll find one....


So what is this sensation have in common with me? hmmmmm, let me guess... i'm a fan, silly....i know, i know, according to you, i'm just another regular Kpop fan that you guys ever heard of....but did you guys ever heard that i have this huge collection of Korean drama and movies at home? nope, i'm guessing not everyone heard of it....hahaha....call me a devil or crazy, but who cares? i love to spend my money over this things...and mind you, my mother have the same interest as her daughter.....hahaha....like mother like daughter right? 


I have heard my friends and people around me calling me as an idiot because i've spent too much money on shit instead of academic purposes, but let me tell you something, people do stupid things everyday....that make us human and differs us from other creation of God.....hahaha....another philosophy words by an idiot who spent lot of money on shit.....


Well, people have hobbies, and mine is this....it's not shit for me because i see it as an investment in future....i invest in buying these DVDs because i know from it, i can learn so many things.....i learn other culture, their way of life, i learn how to open my mind towards other people, i learn that i have to respect elders and many other moral values.....i'm not a fan of books so i found other alternatives to learn is to watch from others....and learn from it....it's like school of life and i know most of parents wouldn't allow this kind of activities but this is the way i learn and see things....i'm more to observing and learn then learn something through books....so beware people, i'm quite an observant.....


I probably talk much about my DVDs collection, didn't i? now it's time for me to   talk about comics! Manga is the other source of me to relax....you guys know that when people start reading Manga, they will laugh like hell....i'm like that.....hahaha....the truth is, Manga is a very good therapy for me to distress myself over many things.....where i'm not sure what kind of many things is that but i'm sure you guys can understand what am i babbling here right? no? okay whatever....just read one or two Manga and you will get what i mean....


My collection of Manga wasn't just Japanese Manga but also Malaysian Manga....those who know Zint and Ben know how much these two have contributed in our Malaysian Manga field....i personally like these two's art work because first, Zint with his hilarious and action style while second is Ben with his thinking, moral values and beautiful sketch of his work that amaze me....you guys can see that i'm quite a fan of this two because i have almost every piece of comic they produce...almost not every....hahaha....


My craziness is up to an extend where i spent huge pile of money on it and of course my parents scolded me like crazy but hey, i'm still a kid...i don't really listen to what they say....i follow my heart, most of the time.....the thing with me is that, i love to collect things like a lot....spend my money on something rather than the important ones....to conclude, i love to shop....and yeah i know i have to stop doing it because i'm still a student without any stable salary....God help me please...


So listen you guys, don't be like me....spend your money wise and stop thinking of spending it elsewhere....believe me i'm not going to listen to what i'm saying, but just don't be like me okay....


Okay, here's a glimpse of my collections....


 
OMG, i left my Winter Sonata's CD....yikes....

 

 
my other collections of DVDs.....
there's more but my father locks it away from me...hahaha 

 
Manga time....hahaha 

 

So that's it folks.....have a nice day.....shalom... 







Sunday, October 23, 2011

"THROUGH A RAPIST'S EYES"


It seems that alot of attackers use some tactic to get away with violence. Not many
people know how to take care of themselves when faced with such a
situation. Everyone should read this especially each n every girl in this world.

THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONG...
FYI - Through a rapist's eyes! A group of rapists and date rapists in
prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim
and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle.
They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid
or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to
go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common
targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women
who's clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors
around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through
their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are
off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is
grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman
and quickly move her to a second location where they don't have to
worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged
because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going
after you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or
other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their
hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to
the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince
these guys you're not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or
with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask
them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk:
can't believe it is so cold out here, we're in for a bad winter. Now
that you've seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up,
you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of
you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to
said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would
not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY
target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of
it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER
SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you can
do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from
behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and
armpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this
guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was
trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin
and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching
yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a
particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it
is extremely painful. You might think that you'll anger the guy and
make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our
instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of
trouble. Start causing trouble, and he's out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers
and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing
down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using
much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked
audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of
your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any
odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel
little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really
was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ....
I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be
some, where you will go "hmm I must remember that" After reading,
forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be careful in
this crazy world we live in.

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your
body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks
for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from
you.... chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or
purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN
THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back
tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like
crazy. The driver won't see you but everybody else will. This has
saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating,
working, etc., and just sit
(doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON'T DO THIS! The
predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for
him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell
you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or
parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be
hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the
passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE
RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you! u are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the
passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling
them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their
cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and
the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest
your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a
guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE
THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are
horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS
RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times;
And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may
get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a
good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies
of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often
asked "for help" into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when
he abducted his next victim.

I'd like you to forward this to all the women you know. It may save a
life. A candle is not dimmed by lighting another candle. I was going
to send this to the ladies only, but guys, if you love your mothers,
wives, sisters, daughters, etc., you may want to pass it onto them, as
well.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the
world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it's better safe than
sorry.


If u have a heart or compassoin share this photo.

WE CAN SHARE JOKES AND SPAM MAILS TO OUR FRIENDS & NETWORKS 
PLEASE FOR ONCE SHARE THIS AND 
LETS TRY TO HELP THEM.

‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.
SHARE IT WITH ALL UR FRIENDS.

ATLEAST PEOPLES WILL KNOW WATS GOIN IN WORLD.

Friends So Please Share....Your one share can Help to spread this information. We share So many Stupid Things on facebook and ignore these types of things which can save so many lifes.

I hope you all will share. Lets See how many of you really care for this.

Saturday, October 8, 2011

Be positive!

In maths, we learn that positive + positive = positive while negative + negative = positive.... how is that? quite confusing rite? but take a look back to science theory where we can't met positive and positive or negative and negative because it will repel.... so what does nature wants from us? it is to always think positive and be positive! 


We can have negative thoughts.....who said we can't? were humans and humans do make mistakes but what stops us from that? simple maths, have positive thinking....i keep on repeating on this rite? but that is the idea folks! 


Okay i give you an example to make things clear....
When your mother ask you to do some house work and before she finished her sentence, you already said "NO!".... am i right? of course i'm right because i did the same thing.....okay that is before i can think rationally.....hahahaha lame! 


Or maybe you happen to face this situation....
A friend of you ask whether you can accompany her for a jog today.....you will not straight away gives an answer, will you? at first, you have to think about your schedule....second, in your mind "I NEED A SLEEP, YOU *****!".... and third, you said no to her offer.....


See? how negative you are? tsk, tsk, tsk....a piece of advice, think rationally and positively before you said something....it helps like, a lot.....if you don't want to do something due to some commitment, then said so....don't bluff because it will make you look like an idiot....i know it because i did it....and i do look like a dork....


Just be positive....it won't hurt.....trust me in this.....if you wan't to end up like a looser or maybe hurting someone's feeling, then it's fine....but think before you say or do something....if you happens to have a negative thoughts on something because someone told you so, dig out some info on that and see it for yourself whether it is worth it to have that negative thinking.....


So that's it folks! be happy, learn how to be positive in life and please don't do something stupid that you might regret in the future.....shalom....

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

For boys only!


45 THINGS A GIRL WANT, BUT WON'T ASK FOR: 


1. Touch her waist.

2. Actually talk
 to her.


3. Share secrets with her.


4. Give her your jacket.


5. Kiss her slowly.

Are you remembering this?


6. Hug her.


7. Hold her.


8. Laugh with her.


9. Invite her somewhere.


10. Hangout with her and your friends together.

KEEP READING .

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11. Smile with her.


12. Take pictures with her.


13. Pull her onto your lap.


14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.


15. When her friends say “I love her more than you”, deny it. Fight back and



 hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved.

Are you thinking of someone?


16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.


17. Kiss her unexpectedly.


18. Hug her from behind around the waist.


19. Tell her she’s beautiful.


20. Tell her the way you feel about her.

One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.


21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car - it makes her feel protected, plus it



 never hurts to act like a gentleman
.
22. Tell her she’s your everything - only if you mean it.


23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her - if she denies 



something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT - so 


just hug her.

24. Make her feel loved.


25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!

WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE



 US ..
26. Don’t lie to her.


27. DON’T cheat on her.


28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants

.
29. Text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at



 school, and how much you miss her.

30. Be there for her whenever she needs you, and even when she doesn’t need 



you, just be there so she’ll know that she can always count on you.

ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER, BECAUSE IT’S IMPORTANT.


31. Hold her close when she’s cold so she can hold you too.


32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.


33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her)

.
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will 



automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up


 and kiss her lightly.

35. Don’t ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If she’s 



upset, comfort her.

REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT ..


36. When people diss her, stand up for her.


37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.


38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen



 to the steady beat of your heart, link your fingers together while you whisper 


to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.

39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.


40. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.

MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED.


41. Call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams.


42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.


43. Take her for long walks at night.


44. Always remind her how much you love her

.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much you love her and then bend down



 to her face and kiss her while you’re sitting on her.

You’ll never know when she needs just a little more love .. ♥! 





p/s : Harus lar sekarang nie aku malas tahap gaban nak update blog....jadi 


konklusi nyer, Facebook lar uollllssssss!!!! 


Sedap, mudah dan jimat masa.....hahaha....(feeling-feeling iklan maggi 


sangat) 


Okay malas nak tulis banyak2.....enjoy kay.....